You are not as dreadful as you think! The monster is the Notself!
Human Design is your manual to escape the confines of the Notself. Beyond these confines your own life awaits you. Your life. Your unique, fresh, new life that can only be lived by you.
There is no guarantee that it will be easy to escape the confines of the Notself. There is no guarantee that it will be possible to escape these confines quickly. And even if you live your life as a unique individual there is no guarantee that you will always remain within your comfort zone.
There is hunger and cold, there is struggle and flight, there is age, sickness and death, there is grief and pain.
But if there is hunger, it will be your hunger. If there is struggle, it will be your struggle. And when you die, you will be embraced by your own individual death.
A dear American friend once expressed it in this way, “I would gladly give up everything to drink a single cup of coffee as myself.”
Or to say it in Ra’s words:
You are unique.
You have no choice.
Love yourself.
Peter Schöber – The Human Design System – The Centers